For families with kids on the NDIS, the weekly calendar fills up fast. Speech. OT. Physio. Behaviour support… and that’s before school, work, siblings and everything else that makes up a family.
Nat, mum to triplets and a toddler (all with different needs) knows this better than most. But somewhere in the middle of managing it all, she landed on a way of thinking about therapy that took some of the pressure off.
It doesn’t have to live only in the session room.
Bringing therapy into real life
It’s a small shift in thinking with a big impact. Rather than therapy being something that happens at a specific time and in a specific place, it becomes part of how the family moves through the day. The clinician works on the skill. Life becomes the place to practise it and progress isn’t on pause just because you’re not in a session.
“A big part of that is bringing therapy into real life. If we’re working on physio, we take those skills to the playground. If we’re building regulation or communication, we practise it in everyday moments, not just in sessions.”
Going hard during term. Protecting time outside it.
“Yes, early intervention is important, but so is letting kids be kids. We might go hard with therapies during the school term, but we protect time outside of that - mini-holidays, weekends, moments that aren’t rushing from place to place, overly structured or goal-focused.”
Nat is clear that early intervention has made a real difference for her boys. It’s important to recognise that childhood itself is part of the picture and that unstructured time has its own value, for kids with disabilities and without.
The two things don’t compete. A term of focused therapy and a weekend where nothing is goal-oriented can both be part of the same approach.
Keeping the family at the centre
“At the end of the day, the NDIS is a support to help us be the best that we can be with the cards we were dealt. Our life is still centred around family, connection and making sure our kids get to enjoy their childhood wherever possible.”
That’s the thread running through everything Nat describes; the appointments, the planning, the coordination. All of it exists to support the family. The NDIS is the scaffolding, not the structure itself.
It’s a good reminder for any family that’s started to feel like their life revolves around the plan, rather than the plan revolving around their life.
You’re already doing more than you think.
If you’re a family in the thick of the NDIS, chances are you’re already doing some version of this. The moment at the park where you encouraged your child to try something their OT had been working on. The car ride where you practised a communication strategy. The dinner table that doubled as a regulation exercise without anyone calling it that.
That counts. All of it counts.
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